There’s so much to just randomly observe and comment from a fresh perspective. I never want to stop looking with these eyes.
~See Lemons Just Live
Random Observation/Comment #543: Being a local to me means being in a loving community.
The TT Addicts gathered at the usual happy hour Friday night for some competitive exercise and $4 beers. Harpoon IPAs, Radeburgers, Heffeweisens, Heineken lights, and beer with Sprite flowed generously for hours. Our drink preferences were acknowledged with eye contact, a head nod, and a huge smile. Chit chat with the bartenders and waitresses livened the atmosphere while trash talk about the upcoming TT matches were snuck in there whenever possible.
It was around beer 3 when we all felt that same feeling that can only be embodied by the love of the game, the love of the establishment, and the love of our friends. Five years of seeing Spin change from the casual orange and teal to the sleek gold and black. Five years of secret TT training to get the perfect backhand banana flip. Five years of growing closer to the awesome staff, coaches, and regulars. We have truly found our Cheers.
Table tennis is the perfect mix of mental analysis, personal development, physical exercise, and socialization (and alcohol). I am addicted and it is truly a part of my life – so much so that I even added it to my vows. However, the love of the sport is not the only reason I keep returning specifically to Spin. I go for the activity… I stay because of the family.
Remember: If you want to go far, Go Together.
Also: It’s better to do it together than it is to do it alone.
~See Lemons Love Spin
Random Observation/Comment #542: Breaking out of bad habits is hard, but not impossible.
Why This List?
Little actions can make big changes. This is true for all positive and negative aspects of life. You didn’t just wake up overweight – it was probably a string of inactive months and holiday parties that crept up over time. If you want to improve, then realize these little actions can reverse those bad habits and develop a solid platform strategy.
As explained in the previous blog post, we must put in the effort to form autopilot habits and resilient sub routines that keep you from burning out at the end of the day. Willpower should be saved for the important things. Be in a state of mindful constant improvement and form a platform that breeds this style.
A good resolution has a few properties:
- It focuses on small behavioral changes
- The change is easy (you think it can be done and you have no excuse not to do it)
- The change is limited (it’s not a blanket statement of exercising everyday)
- It focuses on actions – what can you do? – not what result do you want
- The change is specific and measurable
How to Write this List
First, take a look at these categories of micro-resolutions to spark some ideas. Next, reverse engineer your behaviors throughout the day and really find the pain point little habits you can change to improve any of those points. This could be reshuffling the order of tasks, using better resources, or setting up different stop points.
Here are a few of my micro-resolutions:
- #MeatlessMondays – don’t order meat foods
- Sit down lunch Thursdays – to reduce eating food at a desk for every meal, sit down at a restaurant or in the park and enjoy lunch on Thursdays
- Coffee Chat Fridays – have coffee with someone on Friday and don’t talk about work
- Dinners at home should be eaten at the table and on a plate
- Say “no” to the first beer at Spin / or / No happy hour beer before 6PM on weekdays
- Store the phone, wallet, keys, headphones, and scarfs in one location for easy access when leaving in the morning (e.g. adjust habit to place these items in this area when I first get home)
- Remove all notifications from social media applications on phone
- Do not look at phone when walking in the morning (e.g. walk from apartment to subway and subway to desk) – increase awareness and also pay attention more to traffic
- Do not look at work email before 9AM at desk – instead, map out your micro-accomplishments for the day
- No more than 15 minutes of device use in the bedroom on weekdays / Write in a physical journal instead or sketch an idea
- Pay attention to what you can compliment about someone (a stranger or significant other). Tell them (or don’t, but telling them is much better).
- Look at your list of tasks and find what you can delegate once a week
- Make small talk (< 5 min) with someone different in your team every day. Ask them how they are and do less of the talking.
- Give credit to someone for a job well done. Send an email or spread a good rumor.
- Look on slideshare once a week for inspiration on infographics and presentation styles
- Do some type of physical activity (that builds up a sweat) at least once every 3 days
- Before getting out of bed, sit up, straighten your back, and take 3 deep breaths
- Write down the thing that lead to a good laugh or happy moment. Create a happiness jar for this (blogpost of this to come)!
- Share something useful with your community in the morning
- Before you buy something, also think about what you can sell/replace with this new item
- Instead of buying coffee in the morning, brew some from home or alternatively drink tea
- Set-up 5 minute breaks in your calendar (3x a day) to get up and go drink some water
- Do not watch more than 3 episodes of anything in a row (reduce binge watching or balance it with something productive)
- Join at least 2 conference calls a week at least 2 minutes early and use that time to chat with anyone else on the call early
- Remove 1 thing from a to do list for every 2 things you put on (I tend to add too many things on my to do list)
- Brush teeth before 10PM as to reduce late night eating
- Kiss your significant other when you see her for the first time at night
- Eat a piece of fruit for dessert instead of cake
- Try to answer with a joke instead of a judgment (find out what you can smile about in a bad situation)
- Come up with a new list of 30 or write 30 items in a list once a week (Try to do at least 2 lists a month)
~See Lemons Further Resolved
Random Observation/Comment #540: Filtering through every corner of your apartment is always a walk down memory lane.
Continuing my series of “grown up stuff,” we’ve made the move to a slightly larger space with a bedroom door. While filtering through all the things we’ve accumulated, we developed a few strategies and learned a lot more about our relationship. Some of these are also lifted from watching HGTV and Tiny House.
Start with Decluttering
You don’t have to be moving to do this. We all have way too many things and the easiest way to determine what to get rid of comes with two questions :
- Do you still use this item? (functional)
- Does this item mean something to me? (emotional) – Vinessa is a big Marie Kondo fan and she phrases it as “Does this item bring you joy?”
If your answer is “no” to either of these, then you probably don’t need it.
From all my travel, this is a big consideration. If it is specifically memorabilia of sorts (e.g. ticket stub from a first date or trip tchotchke (woah, it’s spelled like this)), limit it to one thing from the trip and think of ways to make an emotional item also functional. When all else fails, digitize it. In future trips, try postcards – they’re thin and don’t take up a lot of space. There was an episode of Tiny House where a travel couple bought blankets from different countries and they turned all the blankets into pillow covers (browse Pinterest for ideas).
Digitize your documents (with camscanner)
You can also buy a scanner, “test out” a large scanner with a feed top and return it afterwards, or borrow one. I also somehow amassed a large number of floating receipts. Has there ever been a case where I needed to prove I bought a doughnut? We decided going forward that we’ll go through the receipt pile at the end of month in budget review. In Clean House, there was also advice to digitize any memories for scrap-booking (this is another post all together).
Go Green and Paperless
It’s not just good enough to remove historical junk, but also ensure that you don’t have to do this exercise again 6 months later. I originally thought of this for physical mail, but this also applies to books. While I do like the feeling of turning pages and smell of old paper, books are freaking heavy. If you haven’t read that physical book in the past 2 years, then you can probably donate it. Also, I want an “unsubscribe” to my physical mail.
Donate What you Don’t Need
I like getting new phones every 18 months or so, but we had 7 old phones, 3 laptops (1 running Windows 98), and 10 USB keys. We wound up clearing all the data on these and then donating them.
Plan Ahead for the New Space
Even if you’re moving into a bigger space, it’s always a good idea to pare down large furniture. In our case, we really envisioned our new color scheme and core pieces that make our place still feel like home. For me, it’s that Japanese room divider in the corner of the top pic – I love the painting and the color palette. From there, we picked the items we wanted to keep and the ones we thought would probably just buy from Ikea.
When you’re at your new place, I highly recommend measuring everything – Heights of counters and little nooks by the corners. These will definitely come in handy. We created a few online home design models, but I feel drawing on paper and possibly cutting out drawings of furniture is a better method.
Planning for the Move
Packing is definitely not easy and it’s best done in batches. Before you start, however, you should consider:
- Who’s helping you move? – if professional, you’ll need to box everything
- What are the biggest items you’re moving? – this determines the moving vehicle specs; smaller cars should probably use small to medium boxes with lots of tote bags
- Approximately how many boxes do you think you’ll need? – Studio needs around 20 boxes or so (you will almost always underestimate)
- Are there restrictions to your new building for move-in? – you may not want big boxes if you’re in a walk-up
We used professional movers because we didn’t want to bother our friends on a weekday. Within 2 weeks, we packed our stuff in the following order:
- Electronics (although we did the AppleTV and chargers last)
- Fragile artwork/ornamental
- Bathroom stuff (save some soap and makeup)
- Bedding (we used some of this for stuffing fragile stuff)
- (1 week before) Clothes that you won’t wear that week
- (day before) Last minute clothes, bathroom, and food into plastic bags
Make sure you give yourself enough time to move. It’s not an easy task unless you’re just throwing everything out and starting new.
Essential items to buy/borrow:
- Boxes (we did 3 wardrobe, 3 large, 5 medium, 5 small, and 3 random storage boxes)
- Packaging tape (3-4 roles is useful)
- Box cutter – super useful!
- Sharp scissors – super useful!
- Newspaper – for stuffing boxes
- 35+ Quart and Gallon ziplock bags – we used this for bathroom and electronics stuff
Tips for Staying Organized with Your Packing
- Look for boxes in your building recycling or post in your neighborhood board (or from work, liquor store, or Starbucks)
- (If you didn’t find them) Buy wardrobe boxes for moving clothes on hangers – it’s worth the price because it was definitely more convenient
- Spreadsheet your boxes – number, content, and fragile (y/n)
- Label your boxes – put numbers on them and do checks to make sure all boxes are accounted for
- Place your boxes so it’s convenient for a move
- Large items in the front
- Fragile boxes in the back
- Move some of your clothes that you’re not wearing out first
- Do a walk through of the apartment
- Use your clothing and towels to stuff some of the fragile items (keep in mind that they’ll smell like cardboard and get dirty)
- Color code your boxes (if you’re feeling neurotic)
- The heavier or more fragile the item; the smaller the box
- Do the box test
- Lift to make sure it’s not too heavy
- If it’s fragile, shake the box to see if you hear movement. If you do, then stuff it with newspaper or other things
- Avoid tangled necklaces with straws
- Contact the post office for your change of address a week ahead of time since it usually takes 5 business days
- Check other things you get in the mail (e.g. newspaper subscriptions, credit card statements, etc)
- Have a separate carry-on or luggage for your most valuable items (e.g. expensive jewelry, passport, important docs, etc). You should not let anyone carry this except you or give even better, give it to a trusted friend to hold onto until after the move.
Moving In Day-Of
- Make sure you have someone watch your pet for the day (because Henry gets scared)
- Keep a box for your Day-Of Go-To bag that you keep separate so you don’t need to completely unpack everything for the first week of moving in
- Bring extra tote backs for last minute items
- Once you have the key, make sure someone is at the new place to help people with arranging the boxes in the right areas
- Provide movers and friends with the details/directions to the new place (remember to ask about parking)
- Have cash for tipping your movers or bring beer/pizza for your family/friends
- Create Phases for the move so you take care of the essentials first
- Take your time to get new furniture and fill in those gaps
~See Lemons and Nessa Moved
Random Observation/Comment #538: If you never stop dreaming and planning new and exciting things with the people you love, each year will hopefully be the best year of your life. It’s another year growing closer and forming unbreakable bonds.
When you’re doing a year-end review, there’s a mandatory road down facebook/instagram lane where you almost instantly relive your life through photos. While these photos may not be the best composed (or even taken by me), these are the favorite ones that made my year.
~See Lemons Say Hello to 2016
Random Observation/Comment #537: 67 blogposts in a year is pretty darn good. Maybe these lists of 30 are just an easier format.
Every year, I read through all my blogposts and find the top ones that describe my year the best.
~See Lemons Love 2015
Random Observation/Comment #536: I have 1 more year until I’m 30 and so many more things to do on my list. Each year has been the year I wish could last forever.
In 2015, I:
- Traveled to: Vancouver/Whistler (TEDactive), Florida (to ask for her hand in marriage), Japan, Hong Kong (Viv’s wedding), Phuket, Bali, Sag Harbor (MiniMoon), Austin
- Triumphantly: Got engaged (using a modified version of my life in lists of 30), helped plan a wedding in 5 months and got married!, Published My Life in Lists of 30, Shot 4 weddings, attended TEDActive (and TEDxGondala), helped organize TEDxBushwick, presented in blockchain panels and coursework, presented career advice to Carnegie Mellon, saw a RoboShow in Tokyo, rode an elephant, became Blockchain Technical Lead for Credit Suisse.
- Ate/Drank: amazing brisket and general BBQ in Austin, authentic Thai curry, Street pad thai, Balinese street boxes with chicken and rice, incredible Loco Moco in Phuket, Huge drinks in Hong Kong, Japadog from Vancouver, Sushi burrito
- Read/Listened to: The Girl on the Train (Paula Hawkins), 1Q84 (Haruki Murakami), Old Man’s War (John Scalzi), The Ghost Brigades (John Scalzi), Grey (E L James), Ready Player One (Ernest Cline), Tomorrowland (Steven Kotler), As You Wish (Rob Reiner), The Last Colony (John Scalzi), Hard Magic (Larry Correia), Spellbound (Larry Correia), Brooklyn (Colm Toibin), A lot of podcasts! (Hello from the Magic Tavern, Mortified, Lore, The Adventure Zone, Seth Godin’s Startup School, The Art of Charm, Serial, Your Best Just Got Better, How to Do Everything, Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me), Bob’s Burgers Live Reading,
- Completed: another jigsaw puzzle, presentation at TEDactive, 12 studio photography headshot sessions, question of the day (#Qotd), Started tripadvisor reviewing, Continued yelping (yelp elite 2015), physical crosswords during morning commute, Covered 40+ events for CS, started Actions of the Day (#AofD), wrote over 500 blogposts!
2015 was the year I took the big plunge. We planned a wedding within 5 months, and oh man was it a fun night to remember. My memory isn’t the best, but I will always remember how she looked walking down the aisle. 2015 also marks a bit of an end to an era of traveling. I know there will be fewer bear travels, but 20 countries in 4 years is one hell of a ride. I sense there will still be at least one trip a year as vacations permit, but the expenses are certainly going to start skyrocketing. In terms of career, this was the year I found a new spark of passion for working on fun POCs. I feel like I work at a start up within a corporate innovation environment, and it’s such a huge learning experience.
In 2016, I’m looking forward to:
- Travels: Bermuda weekend trip, Honeymoon in Turks and Caicos, weddings in Florida, save time for an Indian wedding at some point. I think we’ll have fewer travels in 2016 due to the higher costs of living and focus on career
- Challenges: Writing “Our Life in Lists of 30” with Vinessa, Further build out a Blockchain Working Group and complete more Blockchain POCs, move into a one bedroom, Complete my 30 under 30.
- Adolescent Career: I’ve established a great foundation within the company and looking forward to taking more risks and delivering more value. This is definitely the buy or bust year for blockchain in financial institutions.
~See Lemons Love 2015 and Look forward to 2016
Random Observation/Comment #522 : Sleepy time is one of my favorite times.
A lack of sleep is devastating to all aspects of life. How do you get through the day when you’re physically exhausted? Besides heavy caffeine dosage, you’re probably going to want a few naps throughout the day and hopes that sleeping earlier will “make up for yesterday” (it almost never does).
Instead of constantly catching up, improve your systems and keep a healthy sleep hygiene.
- Keep consistent sleep times and patterns
- Try to go to bed at around the same time each night to synchronize your internal clock
- Get 7-9 hours of sleep per night
- Keep your bed for sleeping only
- Do not bring screens to the bed
- Set a curfew for using devices overall
- If you don’t fall asleep within 20 minutes, go to another room until you get tired again
- Avoid going to bed on a full stomach (give 2 hours to digest to also prevent acid reflux)
- Avoid going to bed hungry (it’ll bug you all night)
- Avoid naps in the evening
- Get some sun during the day so it helps you sleep better at night
- Some experts recommend working out in the morning rather than at night to keep the energy going for the rest of the day
- Create a relaxing sleep and bedtime routine – I like to stretch for 2 minutes before sleeping and cuddle with a large body pillow
- Remove things in the bedroom that distract you from sleeping
- This one is tough: try not to go to bed drunk. You may fall asleep faster first, but you’ll probably wake up in the middle of the night feeling thirsty or hung over
- Don’t talk about emotionally upsetting topics while in bed
- Try not to listen to music with lyrics too close to bed
- Don’t bring your problems to bed
- Change your sheets and pillow cases often so you get that fresh smell before going to bed
- If you’re sniffling and sneezing from allergies, take an antihistamine
- If this works for you, get a white noise machine so you stop paying attention to all the little sounds around the world while you’re trying to rest
- Even if you can take a nap with music playing, it’s recommended to have a quieter sleep environment so you don’t get disrupted by different beats or familiar lyrics
- Make your room as dark as possible
- Change your bedroom so it only makes you sleepy – associate it with sleepy time
- Know what temperature you love sleeping in. I personally like it cold with a warm blanket (and then half way through the night I kick off all the blankets anyway)
- Make sure you have a quality mattress that matches your personal preference to firmness and bounce
- Wear the same pajama clothes that make you feel sleepy. Change into them right before you go to bed or make it a part of that cooling down routine.
- Get the right pillow. I just bought one that has this cooling foam on one side and it’s amazing.
- Convince your sleeping partner to follow the same rules
- Make sure the Henry cat doesn’t wake you up at 5:30AM by nuzzling in your ear and batting your hair
~See Lemons Sleep
Random Observation/Comment #521: Enjoy the little things – the details are what make life unique.
Happiness comes in little doses. If you see it, stop whatever you’re doing and commit it to memory. Store it in that happiness cache and bring it up whenever you need it.
- A genuinely selfless deed
- A hug that lasts a little bit longer
- A look from your fiance that you know means she/he loves you
- A random high five
- A clever quip or pun (I see what you did there)
- A nod of understanding from students
- An obscure reference you understand online
- A father teaching his son how to read
- A son swelling his father with pride
- An amazing set of table tennis rallies
- A compiled piece of code with no errors
- An old song comes on and you know all the lyrics somehow
- A long inhale of fresh air when out in nature
- A smell of a home-cooked thanksgiving dinner
- A message from an old friend
- Anything handwritten addressed to me that’s not solicitation
- A sense of appreciation of your work from a complete stranger
- A toast between friends to celebrate the special moments
- A look of sedated happiness from friends who ate your home cooked meal
- A smell of the ocean and heat of the beach
- A soft purr and nuzzle from your favorite pet
- A surprise gesture of friendship
- A feeling of exhaustion after pushing yourself further on a workout
- A shared inside joke said just at the right time
- A really good laugh about seemingly nothing at all
- A feeling of productivity by 5pm
- A playful squeeze while holding hands and walking in the park
- A helping hand that relieves stress and burden
- A helping ear that heard your final complaint about work and doesn’t think differently of you
- A glance at your fiance sleeping in the morning
The interesting thing about this list is that most of it has almost nothing to do with personal accomplishments and everything to do with other people’s appreciation and observing such a bond forming. Maybe that’s the meaning of life – fortifying bonds to bring us all closer together in harmony.
~See Lemons Love the Little Things
Random Observation/Comment #514: I want one photoshopped fat wedding picture so just in case I get fat in the future, I can look at a younger fatter me and feel less self conscious.
My fiance and I are pretty competitive with each other – it helps both of us improve and benchmark our growth. For the wedding, we’ve set our realistic health goals revolving around diet, habits, and routines. Here’s what I’ve been doing differently (and I’ve already lost 4 lbs).
- Before you start, buy a shirt and pants you want to fit into (or look for clothes you used to fit into, in my case). These are your goal clothes. When you take weight measurements, also try on the clothes to gauge your focus.
- Set a goal weight that is realistic within your time period. Healthy weight loss is no more than 5 lbs in 3 weeks. Healthy workouts will replace body fat with muscle (which is denser and weighs more), so it’s tough to maintain this burn rate.
- Check/Weigh in once a week on a Wednesday. Weekend cheat days take some time to catch up.
- Set goals for specific workouts (e.g. Run 3 miles, do 50 push ups in a row, do 50 sit ups under 1 minute, Palm the floor on a stretch)
- Up your fitbit step goals to 12,000
- Track your food intake with Calorious (yay!)
- Stick to a workout routine – morning exercises are great. Gets the adrenaline pumping for the day.
- Replace coffee with tea – sugar and milk add a lot of calories
- Replace beer with wine – beer has a lot of empty calories
- Replace elevators with stairs
- Drink a lot of water – I am for 2L throughout the work day
- Replace red meat with fish for lean protein
- Cook food Sunday night that you can bring into lunch for the weekday
- Get smaller Tupperware to portion better for meals
- Eat more salads with less dressing
- Try #meatlessmondays
- Hold some meetings in the park so you can walk around a bit
- Stretch twice a day
- Get a workout partner or join a community
- Play a sport regularly that you can train to get better at – the training exercises show more measurable progress with the sport
- Eat smaller portions more frequently – 5 meals a day
- Do not eat less than 2 hours before sleeping
- Go to fewer happy hours
- Vary your workout routines to focus on different muscles to keep it interesting
- Make an awesome playlist to get you pumped
- Listen to a Ted talks while jogging so you train your mind as you train your body
- Limit carbs in the afternoon
- Stay active throughout the day
- Being healthy is a marathon and not a sprint – yo-yo diets are terrible for your metabolism, so make sure you pace yourself appropriately
- Look for your inner motivation and refer to it whenever you need to push yourself
I got some advice from a friend training for a tri-athalon and he gave me this crossfit workout:
- 20 Deadlifts
- Run 400m
- 20kb swings
- Run 400m
- 20 overhead squats
- Run 400m
- 20 burpees
- Run 400m
- 20 pull ups
- Run 400m
- 20 box jumps
- Run 400m
- 20 DB Squat Cleans
- Run 400m
Let’s aim for getting through this with no weights first :\
~See Lemons Get his Wedding Bod
Random Observation/Comment #509: If life flashes before my eyes, her smile seen through my tears of joy will be one of those memories forever in my heart.
That book I’ve been writing for the past few months was finally finished and a shortened version was printed for her to read at a small get-together in LIC. With the help of some very awesome friends, we had an incredible home-cooked meal and a very elaborate proposal. I’ll write the details in another post, but first and foremost – Thank you all for making it so special!
I gave it about 16 hours of not thinking about planning and simply enjoying the feeling of calling her my fiance, but once I stepped on that subway on a commute, the ideas started flowing. Without reading any posts about weddings, here’s what I think I’ll need to do before getting married:
- Pick a time frame for when we want to have the wedding (consider seasons and ask our “MUST” guests what dates absolutely don’t work)
- Determine our budget and how many people we can invite
- Pick a type of wedding (e.g. destination, trendy, traditional, chic, low key, eloping in city hall, etc) and shop around venues for availability in time frame (e.g. brewery, distillery, backyard with food trucks, etc) – Yay Pinterest
- Form a guest list and add spreadsheet columns for whether or not they’re invited and probability of accepting invitation (Thanks, April and Jason!)
- Look at our resources and see who can help (Mandy for wedding cake design? B.A. for photographer recommendations? B.A. for negotiations?)
- Type of ceremony – We need to decide if we’ll do the marriage license stuff earlier and then have a much shorter ceremony for the day-of. We’d also respect the Chinese traditions.
- Bachelor and Bachelorette party locations and invites – provide a guest list for your maid of honor and best man; Set rules for strippers.
- All groomsmen are wearing suits – I have already decided this. We may all get custom made ones. Maybe we’ll wear superhero t-shirts underneath.
- Bride may have two dresses – one for a Chinese ceremony session
- Flowers and theme – I personally don’t mind for any of these and I think it’ll also be determined by the venue look
- Website – I’ll probably be making something to keep people informed of the dates and such – maybe a separate tab here to make it easier on the hosting
- Host an engagement party – maybe at SPIN?
- Invitations and Thank you cards – I’ll probably make a cool web one, but also do physical ones just because I think it’s the thing you’re supposed to do
- Registry of things – We need to decide on what we would want to buy for things: a Japanese knife is definitely in there. I think there are a lot of options in this space: http://www.womangettingmarried.com/best-online-wedding-registry/
- Catering/Food choices – The best part is trying out all the food. I personally would love food trucks of different types. I’d be great if we had mashed potatoes in there.
- Cake – A Lady-M Crepe cake would be awesome, but we’ll probably make a thing out of trying all types of great stuff
- Photographer and Photography style – luckily my best man is a photographer
- Gifts for groomsmen and bridesmaids – I didn’t even know this was a thing, but maybe I’ll give everyone a new custom made suit from Hong Kong
- DJ or Band? – We could just have a spotify playlist, but it would be really nice to have someone play separate for the ceremony
- Grooms and bride wedding bands – The material is important. Maybe someone from machine shop can make a design for us. Yay Cooper connections!
- Honeymoon locations – this is super fun to plan. I already have tons of ideas of where we can go to have a good time and relax. I’d normally rough it, but honeymoons seem like we should be relaxed
- Go on a diet and lose 10 lbs – We both decided to do this, but I think it’ll be much easier for me
- Publish the book – We’ll probably include this in the gift bag? Are we having a gift bag?
- Find an officiant – someone’s going to get us married
- Put together a full schedule – Maybe I’ll use an app for wedding connecting and a way to publish the schedule for everyone like in TED. Sounds like a great app idea.
- Check up with all vendors and make sure our ducks in a row before the final days
- Write marriage vows – I wrote a book, so this shouldn’t be too hard. I’m more conscious about staying not having the audience fall asleep or not crying through the whole thing.
- Write Thank you speech – I think before the dancing happens with traditions, I say some words to those who came to the event
- Take dance classes – V will be very happy about this
- Do a 30 day challenge with personally meeting all the people we’re inviting – this is more of a personal touch for me
There are probably a lot more things that will come up, but for some reason I’m not at all stressed. We like organizing events and this one will be pretty awesome.
~See Lemons Happily Engaged